How do you know if he is in love with you?

 You guys are lying to yourselves in a major way.

Right now, I am currently working hard to be with a beautiful, sweet, intelligent, women that I have been friends with for many years. I never pursued a relationship beyond friendship with any of my female friends before. But as of late, I have been living out this question because of this woman.

There are other actions that aren't mentioned in my answer, but men do a number of things when they are in love. So here are a few examples of what some good old boys may think about when love is in the air.

I would have to say these are my personal top three.

1. Does looking at the women's face make you feel like your in 3rd grade again? Well, that 3rd grade crush feeling is the adult equivalent for falling in love.
2. Are you thinking about this girl all day long, no matter how busy your day is? And even if you could shake her from your thoughts, would you choose not to anyway?
3. Are you filled with energy when this girl comes into view? If you were at home and you see this girl pull up into your driveway, do you instantly smirk or smile or laugh in excitement. These types of actions still happen to me, and it would be impossible for me to be the only guy who does this. Stop lying to yourselves about who or what guys are or used to be. Do not downplay the abundance of love a man has within his soul and the fact that love drives his intellect.