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1. Talk to them and then leave mid conversation. Narcs think they are the center of everybody's world so this will truly piss them off. To add insult to injury you can give someone else a compliment and make sure they hear it. The look on their face is fantastic!
2. Use their own tactics against them. Narcs often gaslight to manipulate people for their needs. Why not have them have a taste of medicine? However don't do this often because you'll never beat them. They have a doctoral degree in manipulation. Also if you get caught by somebody else they'll think you are the narc.
3. Don't show emotions. Narcs will take advantage of you being angry or sad. They see this as a weakness. They fuel off of it. Also you are easier to manipulate if you show emotions. Just stay calm. This doesn't mean go and please the narc.
This is actually some real advice here and it is to cut all contact from Narcs. Narcs need someone to get their Nsupply and they can't do it if you are not there to take their frustrations on. If you are not an adult yet do something to get away from Narcs. Go to an after school activity or find a job and save money to move out. Don't let them control you any further.
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